whats your ideal relationship? what makes up your perfect mate?

forthillserv86 · #1 (**permalink**) 11-13-2007, 01:46 AM

I'm conducting a survey on people and their ideal relationships...**Please pick ten out of my list of factors that play an important role in an ideal relationship. Which ten are most important to you for your ideal mate. Also, please put them in order of most important being first, to least important being the tenth...~* oh and if you have any suggestions for something that i didn't list already please let me know.*sexual attraction*religion*goal orientated (motivated)*dedication * self esteem*family orientated*aspirations*socially involved (programs/ activities)*athletic (healthy)*good listener*affectionate*responsible*honest*willing to compromise*compatibility*leader* follower*respectful*expectations (what they expect out of the relationship)*sense of humor*financially stable*outgoing*laid backthanks!!

JoeCool · #2 (**permalink**) 11-13-2007, 02:08 AM

that shes not a bitch

Jerry S · #3 (**permalink**) 11-13-2007, 02:16 AM

with all due respect, you list some wonderful qualities.problem being i dont think anybody has all of that.

Krizia ^_^ · #4 (**permalink**) 11-13-2007, 02:33 AM

responsible, financially stable, affectionate, honest, LOOKS, family oriented, dedication, religion, compatibility.

soulsearching · #5 (**permalink**) 11-13-2007, 03:15 AM

most important1. respectful2. honest3. willing to compromise4. compatibility5. goal oriented6. sense of humor7. religion8. healthy9. financially stable10. family oriented2.

Valentine · #6 (**permalink**) 11-13-2007, 03:29 AM

i've found the perfect mate, he is older/wiser more stable; loving, kind, caring, thougthfull, a good listener, he is my rock when it come to a stable foundation. we laugh, joke, play, most of all when we go to bed at night its about reading a book before bed together, or watching a movie the next night. on the 3rd night it's about him listening to my horrible day at work; he will wash my feet, dry them, then rub lotion on them let me talk. when i'm ready he'll ask want i want. then i ask him to read plato to me. we fall asleep in eachother arm's. he loves me, respect's me, he is a gentlemen at all times never ever raises his voice. he is my equal in all even in financial situatiion's. we share everything. we even have alonetime apart which is good for the both of us. most recently have spent the last 3 week's together without anyone around and still we find we have more in common than most people. we are coming -up on 6 months together and only 1 night spent apart. he is me bestfriend, soulmate, my equal in life we walk side by side make decisions together.