I HAVE A QUESTION FOR ALL THE GIRLS! WHY DO YOU CARE TO KNOW IF tHAT IS...

Sexy Luv · #1 (**permalink**) 08-19-2008, 11:40 PM

...SOMEONE'S HAIR?? So, We'll get this out the way..my hair is very looongg like hell and its like...NOT saying that WHITE WOMEN dont say this because i know they do and i have heard it...BUT i have been aproached MORE by black women and they always like to ask if THAT IS MY G** DAMN HAIR! ITS SOOO ANNOYING!!! like...idc if black women or white women wear hair peices or anything and i dont care to ask but why is it soo important that they need to ask someone?? I dont get it? they will be like OMG IS THAT YOUR HAIR AND WANT TO STROKE MY HEAD LIKE ITS A TOY OR SOMETHING LOLL but yeah like is there a reason anyone feel the need to ask.

thanx thanx so much, im not mad or anything it just annoying a little bit. I dont mean to sound like im mad or anything.Smooches

tynijha · #2 (**permalink**) 08-22-2008, 05:32 AM

OMG that Happens 2 me 2 all the time family friends come n touch on it YEA it IS ANNOYING!Most Black women don't have long hair so they really like seeing long hair b/c my friends even do that"is that a weave"stunt! I hate it but i'm used 2 it i just don't let them touch my hair

star*babe · #3 (**permalink**) 08-22-2008, 08:19 PM

its because a lot of people want long hair and get extensions so no one can tell who has fake hairits a compliment

Ramey · #4 (**permalink**) 08-25-2008, 01:42 PM

Wow i can't believe people do that too you, it extremely rude.I'm white but my hair was hard too tame and it would take forever too do the right way so i used to wear this fake hair piece that was a scrunchy thing. I showed my friends it cause i didn't think it was a big deal and it made my hair look really good. Like within two minutes it made me look like i was going too prom, but they would tease me about it some times and it really got on my nerves. If it looked good then why did people care? Some people that were strangers would ask me if it was real too but they never violated my space and just helped themselves too touching me. It got soo embarrassing that i just started doing my hair for an hour every morning so i didn't have too get shit for it.Just know your beautiful and that people admire you, tell them straight out that its pretty rude for them too ask you a question like that.

Sharlette C · #5 (**permalink**) 08-25-2008, 11:27 PM

I don't care. If someone has reallyyyy long hair--I'll assume its real because it'd be tacky to wear fake hair that long. But if their hair is in a pixie cut one day and th next its shoulder lenght,, I'll know its fake. I don't usually ask because its annoying ((especially when it IS fake hair or whatever))

francela · #6 (**permalink**) 08-26-2008, 03:27 AM

hi sweetiei also have very long hair, and why is it a problem 4 u? they are just jealous!